Don't you hate people that make you pay for there reproduction?

let me see if this is right , when people of teen or other want to have that means all the rest of America haves to pick up the tab and when you find yourself knocked up and the boy or man you sleep with is a jerk and we pay that tab for your fun making problems and how is this right for people who know how to do and pay for there own reproduction with out asking us if we want to pay for yours to.if you know, you cant pay, don't play because apparently your not ready only animals mate with that kind of mentality .