How often do you argue/fight with your spouse?

I don't think fighting is healthy at all, discussion is healthy. We do disagree, but we tend not to scream and shout, if I am angry I walk away and calm down, then we talk, if we don't do it that way we can really be hurtful to each other, and you cannot take back angry words. We disagree probably a couple of times a month, but never really seriously.